是否同意記者抄文:NO
(文長)
真的也只能是心情抒發....
因為維持現狀才有和平的生活品質
結婚6年,近1-2年才慢慢找到相處模式
還記得剛結婚不久,他自己蒸的花生發霉
還不知道婆婆脾氣的我把它們倒在外頭當堆肥
婆婆把花生ㄧㄧ撿回洗過之後再蒸
明白告訴他這些都發霉不能吃有劇毒
但他告訴我以前的人都是這樣吃不會死
擔心他們吃了傷身體我又再一次把它丟到水溝,結果換來一頓痛罵外加三天不理不睬
年關將近把冰箱裡看起來放的非常久的東西丟掉,也像是踩到他的痛處一樣急跳腳,當然
也是全被撿回,然後明年依舊還是看到它們
只要是當季的水果一定買很多吃不完,確定壞到不能入口才能丟,如果壞一半他就會把壞
掉的地方削掉再吃;可醃製的水果就被做成醃製品,ㄧ罐一甕擺在家裡四處各地:樓梯邊
、洗衣機邊、餐桌底下....
如果真的發霉到很明顯,提醒他才會被處理掉
倒完垃圾回家不洗手摸小孩、刷好牙又再吃東西,整個房間都是小果蠅,我一點也不喜歡
我的小孩到他奶奶的房間去。
現在餐桌上有一碗已經發霉的味噌(他嫌我煮菜不夠有味道自己煮來配飯的,但其實已經
快一個多月沒有夾過),我問過了他不讓我丟
看著它心中充滿了嫌惡!
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謝謝提醒,這句話我自己看來也是覺得蠻驚悚,就不要讓大家不舒服。
另外搬家這事在找到目前的平衡模式之前不是沒有爭取過,但家家都有難唸的經,這事要
達成真是遙不可及的夢想啊......(和金錢無關,才更是難解)
現在的相處模式就是採用結婚之前先生對他媽媽的模式,如果我管太多,反而問題不斷
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