[閒聊] 兒子大於老公,孫子大於兒子
最近年屆古稀的家母迷上用平板追劇,12吋大音量大陸山寨平板加上便宜的4G吃到飽,成為老人家的新歡,一個禮拜看完了羋月傳,現在在追大玉兒傳奇。
戲裡,大玉兒的心原本大部分在多爾袞身上,小部份在皇太極那裡,但生了兒子之後,全都在兒子福臨身上,什麼都只顧兒子,不管兒子有理無理,反正都是多爾袞的錯,就算兒子設計暗殺多爾袞,她也只在乎福臨被多爾袞關了起來,對於多爾袞身上被暗殺的重傷不只是視而不見,連問都不問一聲。
看到這裡,寒假回老家,被拉著一起陪追劇的小女兒說,阿嬤也是一樣啊。
早年家母跟著先父白手起家,生了我這個獨子之後,生活重心全都轉到了我身上,就算我已經結婚,一樣三不五時就打電話過來,東拉西扯的講些有的沒的,就只是想知道我過得怎樣。還好我們沒住在一起,不然我老婆大概回把我當成媽寶吧。
但是,自從我小兒子出生之後,家母雖然一樣三不五時打電話來,但講沒兩句,就「XX咧,叫他跟阿嬤講話」,講完之後換我,也只是一直在擔心我們有沒有照顧好他,保母會不會餵安眠藥給他吃(日托,下班帶回家),來看他之前一直打來確認要帶這個帶那個給他,買來的全都是他愛吃的愛玩的,一副我們沒把他照顧好的樣子,搞得老婆都有點不高興。
以上,在我大女兒身上,沒有。
我老婆說,岳母對我小舅子跟他兒子也是這樣。
這是不是說,在女人心裡,老爸沒老公重要,老公沒兒子重要,兒子又沒孫子重要?
如果是普遍狀況,那麼大玉兒,我老母、岳母這種眼裡只有兒子、孫子,其他人都跟空氣一樣的情形,其他女人也有嗎?
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