[閒聊]面對婆家娘家無法調適
婆家人都很好很親切,公婆體諒我跟老公要上班,平日幫我們照顧三歲跟一歲的妹妹,假
日我們才把小孩接回來,不論是老公的哥哥 、嫂嫂或是弟弟、弟媳也都很疼我家兩個寶
貝,常常買玩具給她們。
我和婆家的關係僅限於見面打招呼,幾乎沒什麼交談,每次都只能靜靜地看著老公和婆家
家人聊得很開心,我頂多附和幾句,公婆有問才有回答,彼此相敬如賓。
婚前就和老公約定好每週回娘家一次,有了小孩之後,怕孩子跟娘家不熟,更堅持每次回
去一定要帶著孩子一起回去。
最近的情況是,
週五到公婆家接小孩順便吃晚餐,通常會待2~3個鐘頭,我只能靜靜的看著他們聊天或是
跟小朋友玩,再不然就是滑手機,雖然已經很常回去,可是就是不自在。
週六晚上也會回公婆家,因為老公的兄弟週末會回婆家住,所以通常會回去吃飯,吃完飯
會聊天看電影,也是待3~4個鐘頭。
有時週日中午又要去老公的爺爺奶奶家吃飯,也要待到一整個下午。
只能等到週日晚上可以回娘家吃飯,通常吃過飯就回來了,可是常常會希望可以待久一點
,會捨不得回去,會這樣想是我還不夠成熟嗎?婚後生活就是這樣嗎?
尤其是這週日婆家臨時說晚上要聚餐,問我們是不是不回娘家改跟他們去聚餐,
老公問我意見,我說:我想回娘家。
老公說:還是順從她們的意思去聚餐,再找其他天回娘家。
我堅持說:我就是想回娘家,你想去聚餐,你自己帶小孩去吃,我自己搭車回娘家(目前
懷孕中,雖然也想帶小孩回娘家,可是懷孕+帶三歲跟一歲小朋友坐車,實在沒把握)
最後老公才說:好啦,我們回娘家
是我太任性嗎,明知老公想去聚餐,可是就是想回娘家。
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