請問以禮俗來說,我應該出席哪幾場法事?
婆婆告知先生他要出席的有頭七、出殯前一天的法事以及出殯當天
我是跟先生同進退嗎?
(我是真的不知道所以發問,沒有要引戰喔)
先生的意思是我去捻香一下就好其他不用出席
小孩也不用去(去年我奶奶過世寶寶約3m因此也都沒到場)
但我不知婆婆的意思如何
因為娘家媽媽還在上班,若我要出席變成她必須請假幫我帶小孩(平時我全職帶,婆媽不
同住,寶寶1y8m)
所以娘家媽媽的意思也跟先生一樣,希望我找時間去捻香就好其他不用到
(認為婆婆是嫁出去的女兒,她的媳婦不一定要出席!?)
但我想知道這種事有分親疏遠近的嗎?
因婆婆娘家較遠來回車程約4小時,先生本身很少去,我們結婚快3年我沒去過...
相反的我外婆家就在我娘家巷口,所以我先生幾乎每個禮拜都會見到我外婆,相處時間多
很多
如果換成是我,我先生不可能沒出席
所以我想問的是以禮俗來說應該如何?
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