[求助] 該出手相助還是顧好自己?
從上班轉帶小孩也快一年,老公要負擔自己的保費跟兩個孩子的保費跟儲蓄
他壓力很大因為以上的費用就比賺的錢還多,
這樣也就算了還跟我說想生個男的.....
目前我希望等大寶明年上小班再工作(我的保費跟儲蓄都是拿以前上班賺的錢)
這樣我大概要再拿自己的私房錢去繳明年的部分
他一直認為夫妻就要互相幫忙,也有說有錢再搬出去
但娘家都會說自己的錢藏好幹嘛拿錢出來
也覺得我很傻有人幫你帶小孩趕快去賺錢
還要自己帶小孩不累嗎
以前還沒結婚前同事曾說夫妻會吵架通常都是為了小孩跟錢
現在想想是有道理的
以我個人來講,沒上班後花費少,都把錢花在小孩身上
雖然有辛苦但陪著孩子長大比較快樂
生孩子我真的覺得對我超痛苦是因為我懷孕到生產後都非常痛
第二胎也沒看老公多細心照顧,所以不太想拼第三個
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