Re: [討拍] 和婆婆的相處
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讓我想到前陣子跟我老公的對話
你選工科是對的~
當工程師你可以回家吃飯拿的薪水比醫生多
(當然是指待公家醫院)
重點是每天可以回來幫我洗碗帶小孩
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我未結婚前遇到三個可以念醫科不念醫的
一個是考上台大醫但跑去當老師
問她為何不當醫生,她說:醫生醫錯或醫錯人就完了
我是小孬孬,寧願教錯學生可重來,醫生太神聖了
而另外兩個跑去電機系
我先生則說..同樣是責任制,玩掛一顆IC,再重弄就好了
當醫生則不然
由此知原PO你的 工作責任重大
不要再糾結你跟婆婆相處
反觀妳比妳老公偉大
你還試圖要顧及工作及尊重先生
(為了讓婆婆開心妳真的對先生很好)
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最後婆婆的話聽聽就好
(不用把你自己及對工作的責任心徹底在婆家發揮,你做
到200分她們也會嫌到剩59分 )
我住婆家前兩年,天天都在糾結跟婆婆的相處及要求
搞得精神壓力很大又懷疑自己是不是有問題生不出來
但一搬出來豁然開朗
連三年蹦兩個
婆婆再講機車話,當下聽了不爽爽,但回家後一忙小孩整個忘光光99
上班加班公婆幫我臨時去接小孩,帶小孩.餵好小孩.洗好小孩
下班接回來就整個大感動
之前糾結一堆阿里阿雜的完全忘光光
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最後你自己評估
若你老公真的無可救藥就放生吧
(因為你才26歲,真的好年輕阿!!
遙想當年26歲,可謂青春無敵)
若還有救就好好談談,你無須依附老公
你更不是花瓶,當你硬起來的時候
相信你婆婆會給予你連你自己都嚇到的敬重及尊重!!
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痾~S大~教錯不是就要更正教錯重教嗎?不然要硬凹嗎?
但人要醫錯不就完了@@
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