[婚前] 結婚後該怎麼做才能妥善照顧自己的父母?
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我是台中人,這幾年因為工作的關係,人不是住在高雄,就是在台北,有時連假日都要加
班,能回家的時間很少。
最近剛好跟未婚夫聊到未來要照顧父母的問題,如果結婚,一定會比他更早遇到父母年邁
需要照顧的問題。
最近想起不知道在哪裡看到的一句話「陪伴才是最溫暖的分享」,我爸媽年紀比其他同齡
的朋友父母要來得大,現在我雖然20幾歲不到30,但爸爸已經70出頭,媽媽也即將邁入70
歲了,想想陪伴他們的時間真的是太少了。
自從大學到屏東念書後,十幾歲離家,就沒有住在家裏,現在差不多一個月只回去一次,
所以每次回家媽媽總是會煮我愛吃的東西給我吃,爸爸老是嚷嚷媽媽平時都沒在煮,但我
一回家媽媽就煮大餐,不過只要和我爸撒撒嬌,他就會立刻不好意思再碎念了哈哈。
雖然快樂一如往常,但爸媽的臉的確一年比一年顯得老了,自己快結婚了,照顧父母的問
題讓我想了好久,但還是沒有什麼想法。
不知道為人妻為人女兒的各位有沒有遇過跟我一樣的問題,後來又是怎麼解決的呢?
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