新婚不到半年,
應該還在甜蜜期,
但我卻感覺很不快樂。。。
結婚前,因為老公本來就與人分租ㄧ整層,婚後為了存錢,加上老公住主臥還算大(但浴廁在外面),暫時也決定如此。
室友因為都是網路上找的,平常也沒私交,所以對我來說,雖然剛搬來有點不習慣和陌生人同住(我從小到大都住在家裡,搬來的第一個月適應的很辛苦,甚至完全無法在老公家上大號,都是在公司上),但反正大家回家也都進自己房間,見到的機會也不多,終於也習慣了。
但最近其中一個室友搬走,老公的好友因為經濟因素想搬來(這裡比較便宜),原先討論是覺得不妥,怕生活習慣不同傷了和氣等。但總之後來我同意了。。。
其實好友人不錯,但因為有認識,加上對方比較常在公共空間,所以變成回家還要social。老公說這是我的問題,不要想太多,把對方當一般室友就好,但現在是不管什麼事情老公都習慣找對方一起(例如倒回收,理由是男生比較能幫忙,怕我太累)。但對我來說,我希望下班後,能夠和老公一起煮飯或是一起做些什麼(這也是之前常做的事,煮飯或是家務我都有一起做),享受兩人世界,而不是有「第三人」來分攤。
看著版上都是討論要不要和公婆住,或是要不要和小姑住之類的文章,我這種情況真不知道怎麼辦?
我現在每天都不想回家。。。
我該怎麼辦。。。
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