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婆婆去世了,但公公和老公的大姨(婆婆的姊姊)對我很不滿
剛坐完月子,出月子中心的第一天才回到新家
(快生產時先生剛好調動成功,我們趕緊從北部回南部找房搬家)
大寶+剛出生的二寶,整個生活作息一團亂,公公就馬上來家裡
看到先生下廚準備晚餐(不滿),幫小寶寶洗澡(不滿)
開始到處跟親戚說我都沒在做家事,都丟給我先生在做。
接著就過年,我和大寶重感冒,小年夜凌晨大寶在床上吐了兩次,加上二寶還在調作息,
我和先生幾乎沒睡,早上我幾乎快崩潰了,被先生拖出門看醫生,
然後除夕早上先生應公公要求帶大寶回老家祭祖,我跟二寶在家,公公也不滿,
說我們都不回去,除夕夜請他來家裡吃飯,也是不高興不來。
然後大姨初一搭高鐵回到南部要我先生載她回先生老家(婆家來回要二小時),
大姨還跟我娘家媽媽說公公打電話給她
說我都不做家事也都不回婆家,我媽請他們多體諒,我也都沒回娘家,
剛搬到新家+新生兒真的沒辦法一直跑,我娘家爸媽也是自己來回三小時的車程來陪我,
讓我先生可以載大姨回去和婆家人吃晚餐。
我先生過年從小年夜到初一天天回婆家,一下子要去親戚家送禮,一下子祭祖,一下子載
大姨回去,也累到快承受不住了。
然後初四公公又帶大姨和表姑來我家吃飯,那天早上帶二寶到醫院打預防針,只好請先生
回家幫她們開門,我自己再帶二寶回家,一回到家,一群人好像在盯著我做了哪些事。
在昨天我先生爆發了,帶我回婆家在公公和大姨面前怒吼,請他們不要再管我們家的事,
我自己一打二很辛苦,我們夫妻之間協調分工得很好,他很喜歡跟孩子互動和做家事。
只要他們再多嘴以後就都不要再聯絡往來。
我覺得要不是先生一直很體貼,凡事挺我,呵護我們家,
這個婚姻早在婆家人的干預下破滅了。
我們從結婚開始,他們只顧出一張嘴,從來不奢望他們出錢出力,
深刻體會到版上說的,媳婦永遠是媳婦,做再多都得不到鼓勵,
永遠嫌妳做得不夠好不夠多,認為在家當全職媽媽很爽,所有家事應該都要全包。
還會拿以前她們多辛苦來當例子。
現在我已經黑得夠徹底了,反而輕鬆自在,不管他人眼光,才會得到快樂。
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