[心情] 如何讓老公放鬆點?
在版上看到大多是老公不顧家不做家事
我知道自己這種困擾很不知足
可是我的老公真的讓我壓力頗大...
我自認也是個頗愛乾淨的人
家裡也喜歡保持乾乾淨淨整整齊齊
但不到要求自己一定得天天掃地拖地
畢竟每天工作下班後已經很累了
我的老公上班更是辛苦
早七晚七還要開長途車來回外縣市
但自從我們搬到新家之後
他就非常堅持要天天掃地拖地
堅持洗衣服曬衣服
每天整理已經整理到不能再整理的雜物
也不是我都不幫他
只是因為目前是懷孕狀態
而且除了餵狗餵貓清貓沙
(狗狗是我的所以我都會自己照顧)
其他事情我是不覺得有需要到天天做
但他非常堅持要天天掃地拖地
拖整間屋子拖起來一小戳毛他就很開心
(貓狗不會接觸的地方亦然)
幾乎天天他都是早上七點起床,半出門
晚上七點半到家,吃飽飯約八點半
休息個一小時半就開始他堅持的家事了
約從九點多就會一直忙碌到十二點
約十二點多去洗澡蹲廁所半小時
然後才洗澡準備睡覺
這樣弄一弄都一點多兩點了
其實,我很感謝他是願意做家事的老公
但比較希望他每天做個一件兩件就好
不需要把自己搞得那麼累
而且他做事時通常不太說話
一方面看他那麼累我的心也會很累
看著他一直做,我有孕實在不想多動
我的心裡壓力一天天在增加…
二方面真的比較希望他能多陪陪我
這些話都有委婉跟他討論過
但他還是相當堅持要打掃...
我也調侃過他
現在就這樣那孩子出生豈不是要做到天亮
他就只是聳聳肩說那就做啊.....
個性固執地無法溝通,雖然不是什麼壞事哪…
不知道有沒有人老公也是這樣
該如何讓他放鬆自己也同時放鬆我呢…
其實看另一半一直這樣忙碌
我壓力真的好大…
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