是否同意記者抄文:NO
生完小孩後原本要回職場,老公堅持小孩要自己帶才安全,所以要我當全職媽媽,24小時
都是我在顧,沒有其他人同住。一開始分隔兩地,老公在外地工作,然後老公一到兩週回
來一次總是往外跑,找朋友到半夜兩三點,我當然心裡非常不舒服,因此他雖難得回來,
但我們卻都會發生不愉快。
大約在小孩五個多月時,半夜擠奶順手看一下老公手機,發現他跟別人搞曖昧,內容已是
很想你,吃飯沒,對方還會傳嘟嘴親親的照片,事後確定肉體還未出軌,因為對方在馬祖
當職業軍人。一開始我堅持離婚,但他說知道錯了,說他覺得我不關心他不愛他,只在乎
小孩,他才往外尋求慰藉,最後我原諒他,也搬去與他同住。
現在小孩一歲三個月了,今天他突然的發脾氣,我完全不知道發生什麼事,一問之下他說
我對兒子超有耐性,對他就沒有。這我跟他講過很多次,小孩現在連人話都不會說,什麼
都需要媽媽,我們又24小時在一起,當然小孩會更黏我。我說難道你希望你老婆對兒子沒
耐性嗎?這樣小孩不是很可憐嗎?有個沒耐性的爸爸,還有個媽媽也沒耐性。他竟然回答
他希望我對兒子沒耐性,他不要我對兒子比對他好。但我覺得目前的狀況,要我待在家24
小時顧孩子,卻要我關注老公大於小孩,目前我做不到,尤其是現在小孩一歲三個月,不
是十三歲。
請問大家到底該怎麼做,我完全覺得是老公很幼稚,還是其實我本身問題也很大呢?
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