Re: [婚前] 我們要結婚了,但是我好不開心
原po先安慰你應該會變好的
等小孩大了滿屋亂跑的時候
你太太多少就會收東西了,因為等你下班來不及
其實洗碗槽下方跟浴室乾濕分離門口擺個吸水地墊
可以解決濕滑的問題
但你天天拖地這件事,其實累的是你自己
也讓我懷疑你的標準是否有稍高
所以也不愛裝潢漂亮的家亂擺地墊
跟在他後面馬上把水擦掉也是有點強迫症XD
不過這等孩子會走也會解決
你太太會怕孩子滑倒
掃地機器人真的可以買一台
如果一直掉髮
垃圾的部分除非推娃娃車,樓下又能洗手
不然感應完也是要推門,垃圾分類有不同桶
有摸到真的髒 不能馬上洗手那又要碰小孩嗎?
更何況抱著更麻煩
你天天上班丟一下很麻煩嗎?
就不太會積個五六包還長蟲?
所以我不太懂
但你如果介意的是互相的問題
可以偶爾你回家後顧孩子,請太太幫忙拿下去倒
如果一天一兩包的重量應該是還可以
擠奶的時間這是最合適的時間
因為晚上12點睡,早上7點擠奶
配合6小時一次另外兩個時間動不太了
頂多前後半小時
體諒他也想有長時間睡眠吧
不然你希望他改哪個時間?
1點擠,擠完再清洗,就半小時到一小時了呢
我婆家是透天,我房間在四樓
儘管外面滿街都食物
我只能趁孩子睡了偷溜去買
心驚膽跳 主要不住婆家
所以次數不多
我必需自備麵包什麼的
餐廳在二樓
你家是透天還是一層?在廚房時看的到孩子嗎?
我廚藝不好,真的自己的食物外食就好完全不想花時間煮自己一個人的飯
那跟廚藝佳 信手拈來就一餐的完全不同等級
可以考慮買米漢堡之類的食物嗎?
或孩子大一點可能會比較方便
但我覺得這應該是你太太自己要想辦法解決
你擔心他不吃亂吃,他能接受你就別心疼了吧
頂多買早餐或中餐一頓,多一點,飽到晚餐你回來XD
婚禮的事他不弄你就弄到自己可接受的程度就好
他不滿意你請她自己找
有些事要有底線會拒絕
他才會尊重你
有孩子真的很累
家事大家都不想做
但下班多顧孩子是應該的
你賺錢孩子不懂,有相處才會有感情
如果你愛孩子就別當做是幫忙太太
是在享受親情
家事的話真的是看你的標準多高
我可以接受亂但不髒
化妝台瓶罐很多但不髒 為何一定要隨時整整齊齊
應用到客廳大概是類似概念XD
跟太太取個平衡吧
這婚前就不該找標準差太遠的
希望你勇敢溝通
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