[求助] 母親節可能會去岳母家過
今年的母親節 我媽媽這邊已經事先訂了餐廳
(媽媽說她煮飯煮的有點累了 所以母親節最大的期望就是不想煮飯
到外面去吃)訂的日期是母親節的前一天
原本想說既然時間已經錯開了 母親節當天就可以請岳母出去外面吃飯
不過打電話和她說了之後 岳母卻說她現在都很少出去外食(因為體質問題)
她說就不如母親節那天就去她家吃飯就好 她說她可以準備
這下聽了讓我有點尷尬 因為原本是想說可以幫岳母這邊也過個母親節
但如果是到岳母家過 變成反而要讓岳母煮這頓(我不會烹飪)
感覺上反而是增加了她的負擔 這讓我覺得心裡有點不安
昨天晚上想打電話和岳母說那我改成自己在外面先吃完
然後再去拜訪她就好 但岳母卻還是說到她家吃就好沒關係
這下變得有點騎虎難下的感覺 因為自己媽媽這邊是去外面餐廳過節
但岳母這邊卻是去她家吃
接下來我應該如何處理比較好呢?是自己也帶些外食去當作加菜
或者有其他更好的做法?
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我的情況比較少見 和岳母反而比較容易溝通
岳母的個性比較大方好客 母女個性完全不同
岳母是我姊夫的舅媽 在認識我老婆之前就已經認識她
她還不收分文幫忙帶我的兩個小孩 這樣的岳母應該是很少見的
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