[閒聊] 出門不帶錢包
隔壁版在討論請客
婚前我也是走AA,能AA就AA
交往一段時間後就變這餐你請,下餐我付,或是之後行程的電影或其他
出去玩,他開車付油錢,如果有外宿就加住宿,我則是包旅費(門票/吃喝等雜款)
結婚後-沒小孩前
他付房貸(他的名),我出家用開銷(水/電/瓦斯/第四台/管理費),生活費各出各
基本上消費方式依舊
但生了小孩後,我就變成所謂的公主,出門不帶錢
(是說錢包也沒錢,帶了也只是增加麻煩)
因為有小孩後,從普薪SALES(偶爾有獎金),變成朝九晚五小助理,領少少的2XK
只付了保母費+我的保費/電話費後,連生活費都要跟老公討
雖然因此理所當然的不帶錢包,但我都會很禮貌的問我老公
我想喝手搖飲,可以買嗎?(撒嬌語氣+懇求的眼神)
然後我老公就會用一種"你很假掰"的眼神看我,但還是掏出錢來付款這樣!
我覺得這是很正常的模式
我因為小孩,選擇放棄相差約一半薪資工作
那些我付不出來的部份,你幫忙提供是理所當然
因為小孩是我們的,我們都要有所付出
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