[代PO] 婚後不快樂,常常吵架
看板marriage作者nunu1102 (.......................)時間9年前 (2015/04/10 21:29)推噓48(58推 10噓 68→)留言136則, 81人參與討論串1/1
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標題:婚後不快樂,常常吵架
我跟老公交往兩年
宴客完到現在三個月,下個月要登記
已同住四個月(兩人住),無小孩,兩人都有工作
交往時也有吵架,但因為是週末見面,吵架次數不超過五次
自從一起住之後,我們時常吵架,吵到我已經記不住有幾次
前兩個月大多是吵家務分配
逐漸達成共識(我退讓)後,比較少為家務吵
本來以為已過了磨合期
但後面兩個月還是不斷吵,我們平均好不過7天
唯一有一次很久沒吵,是我回娘家(約三個禮拜)
再次見面時,有種回到當初交往的甜蜜感
但沒幾天就又吵架
只要我們分開幾天,再見面就可以撐比較久不吵架
這一兩個月我不斷有"離婚"的念頭(還沒登記)
但真的要離,又覺得我們吵架的原因也沒這麼嚴重
吵架時不會大聲,更不會動手,都是冷戰
我們都不是應酬多的工作,下班後就回家
對感情都很忠貞,不擔心彼此有第三者
彼此原生家庭相處很平和,公婆人也很好
但每次的吵架,都讓我越來越不快樂
和好後,又擔心下次不知道什麼時候會再吵
每次吵後我們都會溝通,但下次都還是會再吵架
我常常檢討,到底問題出在哪?
到底是我?是他?
還是我們不適合?
難道我們要常常小別,才能勝新婚嗎?
下個月就要登記了,我卻感覺越來越焦慮
我不確定到底要不要繼續這段婚姻,還是要及時喊卡?
有時我會想逃避我們彼此之間的癥結
就這樣裝死過下去,直到最後整個擺爛
我甚至夢到我離婚了
我擔心總有一天我們會走向離婚這條路
那時必定會有更多牽絆與牽掛
我該繼續努力嗎?該繼續相信這段婚姻會走向正向嗎?
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