[心情] 對於目前婚姻的一些埋怨
我跟老婆已經結婚五年了,這五年彼此經歷了許多悲歡離合
我堅信我是愛我得老婆的,原本一切也都是相安無事~
然而這幾年因為小孩陸續出生,最小的已經滿兩歲了~
我們有兩位寶貝女兒,我發現女兒不論睡覺或是洗澡~
都很喜歡黏著媽,由於彼此都是上班族,回到家我倆都希望小
還都能早點上床睡覺,所以晚上吃完飯陪小孩玩樂後~
老婆就專門去負責哄小孩睡覺,而我專門負責所有大大小小的家事
老婆陪小孩睡覺之後就跟小孩睡在同一張大床上到天亮
小孩原本睡自己床(較小),我體諒太太想說他可以和小孩睡大張一點的床
因此我讓出了主臥室,自己一人睡原本小孩的小床
當老婆跟小孩睡覺之後~我往往收拾家事都會自己做到將近12點
我突然覺得自己好寂寞~很憂鬱~覺得自己白天辛苦工作~
回家也案本分做好父親和家人的角色~
但我發現我和太太彼此並沒有做好情人或是夫妻的角色
我會埋怨太太得不體貼~ 沒有讓出一點時間陪陪丈夫
沒有發現丈夫其實不是工具人,他也希望有人能夠在夜深人靜的時候
陪陪他說說心裡的話,或是彼此抱抱像情人一樣溫存一下
有時我會有壞的念頭(外遇),但我也很清楚知道自己的這段婚姻當初是多麼的珍貴
所以一切也僅止於想像階段,但目前這種婚姻現況,我真的很無言~~
我覺得我跟老婆的關係一點都不像是夫妻,而是像她的室友!
PS: 我跟她平均一個月睡不到一次共枕眠~ 這樣正常嗎?
我們都不會打呼~
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