[討論] 如果先生說想要買下你們住的娘家房子?(代PO)
代沒申請ptt的女性朋友問個問題
由於工作關係(A是社工,B是公務員)
丈夫A跟妻子B分開居住,婚前本來B有打算去A所在縣市工作,
但A說他等還清貸款後也差不多就能調回新北了,到時怕反而是B調不回來或爛缺
A住在外縣市 婚前購買距離公司很近的公寓 貸款過三年自行還清 老家在台北市
B住在新北市 小時候住的老式公寓一樓
(女方小時的家,B外無人居住,搬進時稍微整修)
父母住在走路可到的新家,公司離新舊家都很近
A跟B都567回B的老家住,過過小夫妻生活,白天待在家或一起回A的家走走
B週間會回新家睡順便照顧父母,因為姐嫁國外,哥身體很不好照顧自己家庭自顧不暇
最近A跟B說 等貸款還清 多存點錢想要跟岳父岳母買下目前住的房子
目前的房子畢竟還是B父母的
除了要整修會有顧慮外
也怕如果有天岳父岳母走了
到時哥哥姐姐一起分產,怕不一定能分到這間房
他寧可先把錢付給岳父母 如果把A的房子拿去貸款,大概可以貸到這屋的一半
至少確保這個家是AB兩人一起的
B覺得A的想法大致OK
估算後也覺得可行
只是要怎麼跟父母開口 非常困難
畢竟那是爸媽在年輕時買的房子
是他們打拼的基業
新家則是爸媽在退休後用退休金買的 感情上差很大
有點想勸A放棄
另外買個房子可能比較好
不知道版上的各位 覺得A或B 哪個的想法比較好呢?
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