[心情] 好婆婆也會讓人心情差
婆婆不是傳統上那種對媳婦要求很多的人,我覺得他已經是個很不錯的婆婆,
但是就因為這樣,有時候即便她真的讓我不開心,在老公眼裡都是我在雞蛋挑骨頭,
有些心情如果說出來只是惹得老公不高興、吵架而已,請容許我在這邊宣洩一下。
我老公是單親,家人就只有婆婆和已成家的姊姊,
我跟老公、婆婆、姊姊三家的地點不遠,平時每週都會碰面,
往年除夕都是我跟老公去婆婆家,煮年夜飯陪她吃,
吃完年夜飯我們就回家,初一以後婆婆就會跟姊姊或阿姨朋友到處去玩。
今年過年前,女兒回娘家過年的話題忽然很熱門,
除夕當天早上婆婆忽然打電話來,說除夕的中午姊姊有空吃飯,
所以要我們中午就回去一起吃飯,晚上姊姊離開,我們再留下來吃年夜飯。
我心裡就有些小小的惆悵,覺得婆婆會想要除夕拉姊姊來吃飯,
卻不想到反觀我除夕整天都在,道理上是不是有些不一致。
除夕當天我們不到中午就過去煮飯,包辦午餐晚餐。
煮飯主要是我先生掌廚,我負責顧未滿足歲的小孩跟餐後清潔整理。
兩餐下來加上顧小孩,到晚上七八點,我一邊清理打掃,已經非常疲倦,小孩也很累,
婆婆嘴巴上說不用弄了,該帶小孩回去休息了,
實際上卻是我一個人在廚房拼命收,婆婆跟老公兩個人在客廳跟小孩很開心的玩,
直到我做完家事,坐在客廳保持著僵硬疲憊的微笑,他們都沒有要結束的意思。
然後他們聊天的內容,我聽了之後笑容更僵。
我老公提議婆婆明年除夕到我們家吃飯,吃完直接過夜,婆婆聽了超開心。
此時我心裡想到的是,我老公和婆婆都知道,我妹妹今年就要結婚了,
明年除夕我若不能回家,爸媽就會面臨一個只有兩老的冷清年夜飯。
但他們完全忘了這件事,也忘了在大家都疾呼女兒回娘家吃年夜飯的今年,
我已經還比往年多陪婆婆吃了一頓飯,所有鍋碗瓢盆和廚房地板都紮紮實實清了兩遍。
小孩已經玩嗨過頭(回程一上車馬上嗜睡爆哭),也已經證明孩子不像以往對阿嬤認生。
除夕依然是一個追求讓夫家長輩滿足快樂的日子。
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