[閒聊] 大家的婆家/娘家關係密切嗎?
生小孩之前不會很排斥跟公婆相處,
帶隨著有小孩之後,公婆頻繁來台北看孫
每次一來我就會被我媽"教育"應該,要怎樣對公婆才是好媳婦
久而久之,我討厭他干涉我跟婆家的事情
她每次越講,我就越反骨不想按照他的話去做
後來索性把我公婆推給我老公去應付
我媽問我啥我都說不知道,叫她直接去問我老公
(媽X,什麼傳統媳婦美德)
坐月子的時候,公公直接打電話跟我娘家說何時要來
或許大家覺得沒什麼,但我就覺得蠻不尊重我跟我老公
正逢生完的產後憂鬱,我就跟我老公說請你跟你爸說以後要來請直接跟我們聯絡
婚後4年,除了第一年之外,3次過年我老公都要上班(值班+輪班)
所以我都在娘家過年
(第2年老大太小,第三年懷老二,第四年就是今年,老二還小)
大家聽到都說:啥你不用回婆家喔,你公婆OK喔(好像是說你這媳婦很......)
我都是客套話說:沒辦法阿,老公要上班,只能等過完年了
我心想:老娘平常要上班,一年就這一個長假
要一人帶兩隻在家撐完整個長假已經夠辛苦了,還要我帶兩隻回去
(歹勢,我就是不是傳統媳婦)
過年途中我公公或是我爸會互相打電話拜年
可能受到我媽影響(討厭她又說我應該怎樣怎樣),我就是不想他們有聯絡
後來聽到某個60歲媽媽同事說她某個節日還專程送禮給親家
我才知道原來親家之間真的是有那麼密切的喔
想來問問看大家家裡親家之前到底密切到什麼程度,難道是我的問題嗎?
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※ 編輯: eurofenac (114.43.157.225), 02/20/2015 21:21:56
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