中國是父系社會
因此媳婦就是回夫家過年
因為明天除夕一早就開車回南部(2人一車,必須趕七點高乘載管制前上高速公路)
剛剛整理行李,老公按例叫我不要帶太多衣服
以往幾年我都帶2套衣服跟1套晚上居家衣服(待5天4夜)
簡單為原則,反正我也沒買新衣
昨天妯娌說婆婆有表示過心情不好似乎有憂鬱傾向(她們住附近)
我就提議今年春節安排景點出去走走(以往都宅在家,只有親戚拜年活動)
所以就想之前的新衣還沒穿過,剛好過年帶下去出遊穿
因此我說小登機箱放不下了,將小登機箱換大行李箱裝
但他不想高調帶那麼大箱子
竟然就賭氣把他的東西從小登機箱拿出來說:都給你放,別再說不夠了
當然他大男人一向做主慣了,這不想跟他計較
但在回家過年這件事上
我一直秉持著晚輩盡基本孝道的原則(因為我對原生家庭如此,也希望對婆家做到比照辦
理,當然也希望老公對我媽同等對待)
該準備的禮節,春節配合住他家到上班前回來等等
我自認比他這個兒子用心很多
因此,回婆家一切事情都尊重老公安排
不過顯然產生給他顏色就開起染房的情況
他真以為過年回他家是媳婦義務嗎?
我想對老公說:
「回你家過年是幫你盡孝道。」
但剛剛還是忍下來了
唉,夫妻間有些話太重
還是不能說出口
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