[討論] 要如何讓老公一聽到指令就去做...
我跟老公是雙薪,兩人租屋(一房一廳一衛) 目前懷孕四個月。
結婚後,常常為了家務事的分配而跟老公有些爭執,最主要的原因在於老公是一個對家裡
環境沒要求的人,他覺得不用每天掃地拖地也沒關係,碗放在水槽裡幾天也是人之常情,
洗衣的部分的話就只要有乾淨的內衣褲可以換就好。
優點是老公不會要求我做家務事,他覺得我想做就做不想做就放著就好。
缺點當然就是家裡太髒亂我看不過去就自己動手整理。然後叫他做一點小事,就一直拖拖
拉拉,東摸西摸,不是在玩手機就是在看電視,然後拖到最後他就忘了,我還是要講好多
次提醒。
後來經過溝通,大致上決定我負責洗衣曬衣,他負責洗碗和折衣。其他的就想做的人做(
真的是很隨便的分配,因為老公說用分配的太僵化他壓力很大)
但是!! 就算分配好了他碗還是會放個一兩天才洗,衣服也是隨隨便便就塞衣櫃啊!
而且老公的生活習慣不是很好,例如髒內褲直接掛在廁所門把上,東西用完不會放回原位
,髒襪子亂丟地板等等..
給他下指令叫他收好他就只會說等一下等一下,等到我一肚子火!
偏偏我老公又是個很天的人..只要看我快生氣就會超三八的逗我笑(內褲掛頭上跳舞或是
模仿阿兵哥求饒之類的=_=)
所以每次他一看我笑了,他就會立刻把該做的事情做好,但下次還是完全沒有改善。
我再幾個月就要生產了,不想到時候還要因為這種事情不開心,但我也不要求他要多主動
,只希望我叫他做什麼事情的時候能夠儘快完成。有沒有什麼方法能讓老公不要再拖拉呢
?
ps.除了家事之外,其他跟老公的相處都很好。我懷孕之後就不太下廚,因此他也沒那麼
多碗要洗,再加上我害喜嚴重自己也很少做家事,所以也不好意思要求老公做太多事情。
結果有一天老公忽然很深情款款的抱著我告訴我他覺得自己是世界上最幸福的男人。
我問他為什麼?
他說因為我不再逼他做家事,他覺得在家好輕鬆好愉快,老婆又可愛(?)只要快快樂樂期
待寶寶的到來就好。
這答案真讓我哭笑不得..做家事真的有那麼痛苦嗎?
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