[心情] 月子中心做完月子一定要先回婆家
因為工作因素,所以目前我和老公暫住彰化娘家,等年中房子好了會搬出去。
三月中二寶即將出生 生完後一個月先在月子中心做月子
大寶的經驗是,月子中心做完月子,婆婆說要幫我做滿四十天,
所以又訂了10天的月子餐在婆家吃。
但是上一胎在婆家做月子的經驗很慘痛,長輩三不五時會進來看寶寶,
和婆婆育兒的有些觀念也不太合,導致每天心情都很差。
這一胎做完月子後,完全不想回台中婆家,家上有大寶,我想快點回去適應新生活。
沒想到婆婆卻放話,出月子中心後,一定要先回婆家,因為這小孩姓A(我老公的姓氏)
不是姓B(我的姓氏)!!
我是沒聽過什麼出生後一定要回婆家之類的習俗,如果住台北高雄怎辦?
但是對於我公婆傳統又強勢的觀念,我實在有點沒辦法接受。
為什麼要在乎左鄰右舍三姑六婆的嘴巴呢?
不能多考慮一下剛生完小孩產婦的心情嗎?
我老公也知道我上一胎很不開心,但是對於他爸媽的強勢他也無可奈何,
只說回去一天,然就就馬上回娘家。
但是我問他,如果只是形式上做給大家看回去一天,這樣有何意義呢?
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