[求助] 沒有愛只有恨的婚姻,為了小孩還要繼續
和先生結婚七年,大吵小吵不斷
現在已經是相不敬如冰
很想離婚
但他說離婚的話,女兒監護權要給他、兒子給我
但我不想失去任何一個小孩
可是我又沒幫手可以幫
一個人帶兩個會帶不來(我有工作,是職業婦女)
只能一直這樣拖著
雖然每天都要看到先生
但至少有人可以幫忙
可是他其實也很不想再和我一起
常常不爽就帶著女兒回婆家
我常常要處在下一秒不知看不看得到女兒的恐懼中
對他很生氣
又不能發飆,怕一發飆他又把女兒帶走
實在很痛苦。
看人家夫妻相處,互相關愛是正常的
可是我先生從來沒有主動對我好過
什麼事都要我叫他才做
東西也是要我叫他買他才買
家事也是
叫久了他又不高興,
兩個人又要吵架,他又要帶女兒走
如此反覆惡性循環
真的很煩
我想離婚、又不想看不到女兒
不知該怎麼辦?
各位可以給我意見嗎?
PS.我先生在婆家時,都不會好好照顧女兒,只是把女兒丟給公婆照顧,
他自己不是看影片就是滑手機,所以我很不願意把女兒監護權給他。
家裡的小孩的書、玩具、衣服都是我買的,他從來不會買。
陪小孩玩、帶小孩出去郊遊等,都是我叫我出意見他才做
離婚的話,他鐵定整天窩在家上網滑手機,
女兒就會很可憐。
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