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結婚三年多,目前有一個小孩
跟公婆住在一起
每個月遵照先生要求給婆婆5000元生活費
上班地點在離婆家約40分鐘車程的娘家附近
所以小孩請娘家媽媽幫忙照顧
每天6點20挖起睡夢中的小孩先到媽媽家
安頓好之後去上班,5點下班後去接小孩再回家
回到家都6點多了,通常婆婆已煮好飯
先生已吃飽飯或正在用餐
我邊餵小孩邊吃飯,吃完大概也7點半之後了
收拾好碗盤,整理散落食物的地板
陪小孩吃水果、收玩具、幫小孩洗澡、洗衣服
到了要哄小孩睡覺時都快十點了
小孩睡著後再起來晾衣服
一到五都生活大多都是這樣
六、日先生偶爾會帶我們出去
我對這樣的生活覺得雖然累但還可以接受
不過先生卻常攻擊我說我沒替婆婆分擔家務
沒有負責煮飯、沒有幫忙拖地
說哪有人婚後像我這麼好命的,我還有什麼好抱怨
所以我就想來問一下,這樣真的算很好命嗎?
我承認平常我沒幫忙煮飯拖地
只有偶爾睡不著時,半夜拿除塵紙拖把擦一下樓梯
不過假日若小孩在睡,我會幫忙弄點菜
小孩醒著的話婆婆會叫我去把小孩顧好
我先生的意思是我應該要去負責炒菜
請婆婆幫忙看小孩
各位也這麼覺得嗎?
我是覺得我過得不算太差啦
可是我先生過更爽,讓我覺得很不平衡
另外我還想請教大家
關於以下先生帶小孩的一些行為
到底是這樣真的不妥,還是我太龜毛?
先生身高較高,抱小孩出去時常有些我覺得不妥的動作
例如:1.在醫院掛號時把小孩放在櫃檯上
2.搭手扶梯時讓小孩踩在扶手上
3.搭捷運車子靠站停靠時,讓小孩抓吊環像吊單槓
4.旅遊景點蓋印章的地方,讓小孩站在印章台上蓋
我覺得這些動作都要不得,但他覺得我大驚小怪
真的是這樣嗎?
睡不著的夜晚,拉拉雜雜寫這麼多,謝謝大家耐心看完!
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