[求助] 說還是不說? 代PO
A.是否清楚了解代PO文注意事項(Y)
B.需要代PO文的原因:2)朋友無PTT帳號,幫忙代發
朋友A(女,34歲)和老公(33歲)交往六年多在今年5月底時結婚
兩人無子女,女方父母雙亡 下面還1弟1妹
男方則是父母離異 從小跟隨母親,上面還有個姊姊
其實結婚嚴格說起來算是A以年齡為由主動逼婚,而對方總是用各種理由拖延
直到去年底意外發現男友(現在的老公)明明同居卻劈腿至少兩年
但因為交往初期自己也曾劈過腿,且捨不得多年感情
所以在攤牌而對方不肯分手認錯後決定賭下去---結婚
男方堅持不分手的原因在於婚前一年
和A共同買了一間房子 頭期款女方至少出了七成(包含和家人借)
登記在女方名下,婚後房貸對分
而A的弟弟是男方公司的前輩
所以分手的話 存款和工作也會跟著泡湯 一瞬間就會身無分文。
其實當初勸過A不要結婚,六年了要會設停損點 對方只把妳當飯票
真的愛你才不會劈腿...
但她聽不進去 婚照樣結了,
婚後時常在FB打卡曬恩愛 營造出B是模範好老公的形象
本想說如果她們能這樣獲得幸福也不錯
一直到前幾天
逛論壇亂點時,意外看到她老公的帳號(非常好認)
不點還好,點下去赫然發現她老公打算喝茶吃魚
在相關文章下面留言要聯絡資訊
至於是不是已經吃過我就不清楚了
我不知道該不該和A說這件事情
她神經算大條 不說的話大概不會自己發現
畢竟男方心思縝密,同居狀態下可以劈這麼久...
此外不敢說的原因還有一個
因為這是她第二段婚姻了
怕如果又離婚她會從此不相信人性...
我該幫助她嗎?
還是眼睜睜看著她繼續浪費人生在對方身上?
謝謝看完文章的板友,以及幫忙PO文的版主
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