[心情] 才新婚就覺得好累
最近才剛結婚沒多久
目前與老公兩個人租房子在一個不到十坪的小套房
剛結婚時有說一下家事分配
但婚後幾乎都變調了
且假如老公正在做事的時候
如果我已經做完沒去幫他
他會不高興,會念東念西
但我在做事情的時候他不會主動幫我用
請他幫忙他會說等一下
等到我自己都把事情做完
多次跟老公說家事分配的事情
但都不了了之
1.煮飯、洗碗
因為目前住的地方離我公司比較近
婚前沒有說要開廚
婚後沒多久老公要求我要煮飯給他吃
所以我一下班後要立刻趕公車回家煮飯
讓老公下班一回家就有飯可以吃
一開始吃完飯老公還會洗碗
後來老公就常以工作累為由
幾乎都變成我來洗
老公則會開始邊看電視邊打電動
2.洗衣服、曬衣服
因為陽台很小
所以大約2-3天洗一次衣服
也有洗衣機
因為曬衣架很高
我必須要搬椅子爬上去才曬的到
所以一開始就跟老公說曬衣服跟收衣服都由他來用
但收下來以後老公就丟在床上由我來折好收好
3.掃地、拖地
住的地方實在太小了
能行走的地方也不多
說好我掃地
拖地老公來
但老公兩個月才拖一次地
原因是他說地不髒
4.房間整理
房間整理大部分都是我用
房子也不大
所以整理起來我自己一個人是覺得還可以
但缺點就是老公他常常不知道東西放哪裡
就算告訴他他也都不會記得
老是會問東問西
用完以後也不知道放哪所以無法物歸原處
5.倒垃圾
我們只要把垃圾放在房門口
就有管理員會收走
連拿下去樓下都不用
老公會打包好垃圾
但都會忘記拿去門口
所以也都是我拿去門口放
雖然家事全部都自己做都可以
但心裡會不太舒服
跟老公提出來他又認為我在抱怨
不然就當下幾天改善而已
覺得結婚後的生活比婚前還累….
為家付出老公也視為理所當然
心理跟身體都很累
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