[心情] 討厭休假日
目前小孩十個月,平日婆婆帶,本人在上班,只休週日,但老實說...上班比在家帶小孩輕鬆。
應該是夫家的毛很多,比如算命說百日內不要出門,臭小子真的就只能去醫院或收驚才能出門,可能是這樣,孩子的爸認為很少帶出去,所以就不裝安全椅,一直到現在也還是不裝,當然臭小子非常活潑,一上安全座椅就哭鬧,坐車也愈來愈好奇,有時真的抱不動,孩子的爸就會生氣,說以後別想出門(只是假日回我媽家,車程十分鐘),他也真心不太想帶我們回娘家,但礙於我媽愛外孫,他還是會假日帶我們回娘家。今天我舅舅家正在辦喪事,所以本週沒回娘家,剛好同事調班,所以我休假,其實要我帶小孩oK,像上週,孩子的爸值班,我回娘家,我們去逛大賣場,真的
!這樣一天過的好快,但孩子的爸,因為臭小子坐車不安分,一如往常拒絕帶我們去附近的商場晃晃,寧可一整天在家被臭小子整,到了傍晚,不熱了,我想用推車推小孩去散步透氣,目前用的推車很簡便,安全帶很兩光,臭小子會站起來根本挷不住,所以我請孩子的爸把月初買的推車拿出來,目的為了安全,但孩子的爸不耐煩,一直說挷住他會哭啦,要推就這樣,不推拉倒..
我還是推出去自己研究怎樣繫,順便冷靜,繞了半小時,臭小子也睡叭了。
好多字,謝謝大家看到這裡,以下我想問,有多少人沒裝安全座椅?有多少人因為孩子很"活潑"不帶出門,寧可整天悶家裡?又有多少人為這種事想離婚?
為了這樣,我已學會開車,也計畫買車,我的想法是,安全座椅坐不住會哭,就讓他哭,車繞一繞他就會睡,總會習慣,但現在,不知為何好心灰,另一半跟公婆的態度讓我覺得我像局外人,在找麻煩,今天散步回來好想說孩子給你們,怎樣養都隨你們,我什麼都不要,但在整理行李,看到我月子期寫的給XX的一封信(xx是我兒子),就哭了,深怕我看不到他長大,所以我還在這,我也不知想聽什麼意見,只是今天我離婚的念頭滿到心很悶,可以尋求眾板友的智慧告訴我、開導我嗎?
謝謝
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