[求助] 要幫忙帶大姑的小孩
[文長,慎入]
我有一個快兩歲的小孩,
目前和公公及小姑同住,
婆婆已經過世。
二姑已經結婚,
但因為和小姑一起在夫家作手工品賣,
所以週一到週五都會回來。
大姑目前是請育嬰假在家帶小孩,
小孩目前七個多月大,
一個星期大約會帶回來1~3次。
我的工作只有早上,老公是業務
所以女兒平常早上由老公帶,
下午換我接手,老公出去跑業務,
大部分是我們夫妻自己帶,
偶而臨時兩個都有事時,
會托小姑和公公幫忙看一下。
前幾天小姑跟我們提起,
因為大姑八月要復職上班,
所以她們想說把小孩送回來大家一起帶,
看我們的意思,
老公反問她覺得如何,
小姑說她覺得OK呀!難道要給保母帶?!
老公後來就沒在回話,
我在一旁顧女兒也沒說話。
後來跟老公討論,總覺得問題多多,
一則屆時小孩大約11個月,
在學爬學站甚至學走的階段,
不是像現在可以乖乖躺在嬰兒車偶而抱抱,
吃東西也不像現在可以大部分喝奶就好,
一天至少要餵2~3次副食品,
要花的時間一定比餵奶的時間多。
二則雖然二姑和小姑她們覺得沒問題,
但因為她們的工作是手工品,
所以大部分的時間還是都要坐在桌前工作,
感覺跟在小孩後面跑的部分就需要我和老公負責。
三則我目前懷孕三個月(夫家還不知),
預產期是十月中旬,
屆時要挺著肚子顧一個一歲和一個兩歲多的小孩,
想到就頭痛,
但又怕如果不幫忙顧,會被抱怨說都不幫忙,
畢竟自己小孩偶而也是需她們幫忙帶一下。
目前只能跟老公討論說不然等過一陣子先帶回來大家試帶一星期,
但自己的經驗是小孩在7個月~1歲間在吃和活動上是很大的轉變期,
也不知道試帶結果到底能不能作準?!
請問有沒有人有什麼好建議?
或者可以怎麼帶或怎麼分配工作的建議也好?
謝謝!
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