[心情] 沒良心的公婆…
手機排版請見諒…
這件事擱在我心底好久,無法釋懷,總是不自覺的想起這件事,讓我對公婆反感到極點。
去年8月發現懷孕了,我和老公很開心(因為結婚快一年未避孕卻一直沒消息),也告訴雙方父母這項喜訊,但令人傷心的是,9月底發現是萎縮卵必須手術拿掉,當時我們傷心欲絕,覺得像從天堂掉到地獄的感覺…
之後,老公跟公婆詳細說明萎縮卵的原因與機率,公公當下是說身體健康比較重要,而婆婆不知再白目什麼一直聽不懂(?!),還要老公解釋兩次,之後又打室內電話到我們家(沒和公婆住),剛好是我接到,又再問一次:「怎麼會發生這種事?」然後我又要解釋一遍…
是多難懂阿?一直問一直問,越問我越傷心…
然後真正令我生氣的點是,手術後的一個月,某天的聚餐,公婆邊逗弄大嫂的小孩,公公就對我說:「加油!趕快生一個!」拜託…我才手術完一個月耶!身體都未完全恢復就叫我趕快生。然後接下來的每個月我婆都要跟我說一次:「快阿!加油阿!趕快生一個阿!」且每次都故意只對我說,老公剛好不在身旁或是在忙根本沒注意聽到,只有一次老公有聽到就直接回:「不急,順其自然!先養好身體較重要。」
甚至有一次婆婆又再說,我當時臉很臭沒看她也沒回她,反倒是大伯趕緊幫我說話:「先養身體比較重要吧!」
經過幾次不愉快後,某天我哭著跟老公說,我的爸媽從沒催過我生小孩,甚至要我先調養好身體,不要這麼急著懷孕,但你爸媽呢?在我術後一個月開始每個月都在對我催生,真的很討厭也很煩!!
老公才得知我為此事壓力過大,還想好一套說法堵她媽的嘴,結果…2月就發現我懷孕了,為此真的很開心,可是我都會想起這些事,甚至讓我不想跟公婆主動分享我們這份喜悅…
我知道是我太鑽牛角尖,但到底要怎麼釋懷…
其實在結婚前就陸續對公婆很多行為感到不滿,不過都算是小事,且都是老公在擋,所以還可以忍受,但這件事是壓死駱駝的最後一根稻草,讓我對他們是厭惡到極點甚至也不想
關心他們……
淺水了很久,第一次發文且猶豫了很久,或許很多人認為我這根本沒什麼,希望板友們小力鞭我和開導我,謝謝!
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