請問有關祭拜祖先....
我不是長媳,目前跟公婆還有老公的兄弟同住,
我先生有一個哥哥一個弟弟,但他哥(40歲)他弟(35歲)都沒有結婚的打算
也沒有交往的對象
他家是非常大男人的家庭,舉凡他們認為那是女人的事(如下廚,洗碗洗衣,倒垃圾等等)
我公公跟老公的兄弟都在旁納涼看電視,所以我婆婆作家事作到駝背很嚴重...
尤其是我老公他兄弟到現在衣服還丟給我婆婆洗更讓我嗤之以鼻
(我婆婆都用手洗不用洗衣機)
我老公算是比較自動自發的人,衣服自己洗,也會幫我洗碗幫我分擔等等,
像今年除夕我幫忙準備拜拜祭品,吃完年夜飯幫忙洗碗,
後來在幫婆婆倒垃圾時我老公就發火了叫他兄弟也出來幫忙不要只會躲在房間看電視XD
但祭拜祖先時我感覺到婆婆有意叫我學,因為拜拜時只有我來幫忙,
其他男人都在看電視,婆婆也沒叫他們過來幫忙(是要我接手嗎?驚!!!)
請問如果他兄弟都不結婚以後是不是祭拜祖先的事是否就要由我接手?
還是可以由他大哥長子來接?因為我也是職業婦女,常常工作到比他兄弟還晚下班咧...
想到要弄拜拜的事就頭皮發麻...如果只是幫忙還好,但我不想完全接手,
有沒有什麼辦法可以委婉拒絕呢?
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