[心情] 怎樣的老公好?怎樣的老婆好?
目前有一個4m的寶寶,小嬸有一個3m15d的寶寶,
懷孕時,有po一篇文,被轟的蠻慘的,現在po這篇,有被轟的心理準備,
老公跟小叔是在自己的工廠上班,家裡環境不錯,
老公對工作很拼,下班都還會處理客戶的事情,對家人(公公、婆婆、已嫁的姐姐)也比較重視,但是脾氣較不好,很有個人意見,我要幹嘛幹嘛他都會管
小叔是標準的妻好,下班後是絕不會主動處理工廠的事,他跟老婆幾乎都關在房間,吃飯才會下來,
而我和我小嬸目前都是全職媽媽(三餐婆婆處理),
我的小孩都是我自己在顧,除了我洗澡是老公顧,
白天閒暇之餘我會幫忙處理訂單、發票(不支薪),然後有時也幫忙婆婆顧大姑的女兒(大姑在臺北工作),因為小嬸會以睡不好的理由,請婆婆幫她帶一個早上,
小嬸對顧小孩很沒輒,小孩洗澡都是婆婆在洗,連大便要洗屁屁也不會,叫她學,她就一副學不來的樣子,她只顧一到五的白天,小叔下班就丟給他,連晚上也是,所以有時她說她睡不好,白天把小孩丟給婆婆時,我都很無言,晚上不是她在顧,她是睡不好什麼?家裡的事情她也不會關心,她覺得沒她的事。
我小叔對她是百依百順,我婆婆也真是好婆婆,從不會拒絕她的要求,有時我婆婆也會很無奈,也心疼她兒子,但是她會說小叔就願意了,她也只能盡量協助,家和就好。
我婆婆曾經叫他們不要再生,(我問婆婆為什麼,她說生一個他們夫妻比較不辛苦,而且小嬸不會顧,是想累死誰),但是我小嬸卻說她媽媽希望她再生,又不是她媽媽在顧,真是好笑
前幾天,我老公跟我討論要生幾個的問題,他希望多生幾個,我跟他說我想生兩個就好,他很生氣,起了一點口角,我跟他說,如果我像小嬸一樣,帶孩子這麼輕鬆,凡事有老公幫著,要生幾個我都嘛敢,然後就吵架了,他回我說,難不成嫁小叔那種真的好嗎?
我就說沒什麼不好,至少他對老婆是好的,我老公就氣衝衝的說,我對你不好嗎?然後就說我小叔那種沒有用,只會對老婆好,工作不認真,要不是有父母的後盾早就餓死之類的,
雖然小嬸的行為我很看不慣,也不可能學,但是有時還是很羨慕她,我覺得我凡事都為整個家想,而她只在乎自己,卻可以有一個這麼體貼對她好的老公,只能說這世界本來就不可能有一對一的公平!
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