[討拍] 不怕神一樣的對手,只怕豬一樣的隊友
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目前懷孕16週,是準先生家的第一個內孫(已訂婚,下個月結婚),我在臺中工作,是公務員,準先生在臺南工作是工程師,婆家在彰化娘家在臺南,當時就跟準先生討論好回臺南娘家做月子一起住娘家,因還沒購屋所以會暫住娘家,我可以請育嬰假兩年都沒問題,昨天準婆婆問起要在哪生,我回說回臺南生,當下準婆婆沒說什麼等我離開客廳立刻問我準先生在臺南生是要在臺南做月子嗎?我先生就說對阿,這樣他也可以就近照顧,準婆婆立刻回說你們工作都忙帶回來我幫忙做月子請完產假你老婆回去上班小孩就留下來他照顧就好,中間批哩趴啦說很多,準先生講不過居然回說“他就說回娘
家比較自在,在這邊不自在阿”,其實當時我剛好要回客廳後面一些內容有不道德的偷聽一下,聽到我準先生的回答我簡直傻眼,果然我一回去(假裝若無其事)準婆婆開始說教說嫁出去了就不要一直住娘家,弟弟或以後的弟妹會講話,我立刻回說不會阿,姐姐(準先生的姐姐)回來我也很開心,準婆婆又開始講小孩他可以帶,以後我們要上班,我產假放完也要回去上班怎麼顧小孩,我又回說我們半年育嬰假有六成薪,產假有全薪,至少可以請8個月不用擔心,況且我們是假日夫妻難得可以這樣住在一起,不想再分隔兩地,婆婆又回說準先生工作很累平常也沒辦法幫什麼忙不如就給他帶,準先
生此時居然說對阿,我腦袋裡只閃過這隊友果然是豬,後來我就回說媽你也有工作要忙,我娘家媽媽已經退休可以幫忙,等小孩穩定後再帶他回來短住,我想自己帶小孩不想把責任丟給長輩,準婆婆凹不過我只好說先降吧,等以後再說。我的確不是傳統媳婦,不是準婆婆口中嫁了就該歸男方家的人,我也不怕黑掉只想爭取一個平衡,先生明明就在臺南工作,沒道理我要去彰化生活,回娘家我確實比較自在,每天可以看到小孩跟老公,等請完假回去工作有要分離就很珍惜這段時間,娘家媽媽也很阿沙力說要幫忙,在準婆婆心中我可能變成叛逆無道的媳婦了吧!等小孩生下來之後想必又有一翻爭
奪戰!!!
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