[求助] 小孩面前抽煙...
目前和男友已經論及婚嫁,約明年中結婚
因為是台北-台南 的關係,所以婚後也會搬去台南同住
前陣子討論婚後生小孩後回娘家問題
因為男方家的親朋好友皆不抽煙,唯一有抽煙的男生爸爸已戒煙很久了
所以老公日前就叫我說
請我父親現在開始戒煙,否則以後別想讓小孩和他見面
我說~我爸已經很少在我面前抽了,他會自己跑去陽台or空氣較流通的地方抽
但他覺得~就算不在大家面前抽煙,大人的身上還是會有煙味和那些分子
他不想冒這險,難道你想讓小孩變成過敏兒嗎?!
而且也不是叫他馬上改呀,有一二年的時間可以慢慢改變。
但...我覺得 抽煙這個習性
並不是說改就能改,只有當事者有心才有辦法吧~
因為我們已經叫我爸改了十幾年了,還是沒辦法~
而且我爸和我男友之前就看不太順眼了(一個文人,一個大拉拉)
以後嫁人已經很難見到女兒及孫子了,還被說因為抽煙不能見面
這不是太不見人情嗎?
問了很多朋友,也覺得這是無解~
朋友之前也有這種問題,但沒有那麼嚴重,頂多就是小孩面前不要抽就好
但他連衣服上都會有煙味這個我就說不通...
難不成抱孫子前還要先沐浴淨身,換全新衣嗎??
哎...一個頭二個大呀~"~
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