[心情] 結婚33年心得分享
記得好的,捨棄不愉快的紛擾,是我結婚這麼多年才領悟的,智慧終於開了!
如今的我,跟公婆或三個大小姑,也培養出一種微妙的默契,增一分太多,少一分惋惜XD
在婚姻裡有很多人,選擇怎麼讓自己過得快樂,也是ㄧ種選擇啊~
我自己有一雙兒女,是個非常平凡的家庭主婦,女兒已婚,覓得好門:)
我就是版友媽媽年代的人,也經歷許多為人媳婦的心酸,在婆家早上五點起床張羅
過年版的:灰姑娘傳奇每年在上演,還有生意失敗的大姑一家五口直接搬來同住的
相處點滴....但這些不勝枚舉的歷練,卻是我日後堅強的養分XD
在婆家的字典裡,家庭主婦是個對經濟沒有貢獻的名詞,其實我放棄工作
專心相夫教子,家裡窗明几淨,也注重孩子的教育與品格...最終獲得公公高度肯定
這些都要歸功於老公認真工作,真的辛苦了T_T
老實說,我很慶幸婆婆不願意幫我坐月子,婆婆當年說她有睡眠障礙
我現在也有,終於體會!但是媽媽不辭辛勞請假一個月,遠從外縣市風塵僕僕的趕來
待命,這份真心,唯有母愛可以詮釋Q_Q 32年後的今天,這段母女相處坐月子
撫育嬰兒共同奮戰的日子,卻成為我跟過世母親珍貴的回憶!!
我結婚33年了,我以前就不是油麻菜子啦:)我現在當然也不是XD
我已經越過讓自己不會快樂的因子,直接捨棄那些煩惱的鳥事階段~
我身邊的人只在意身體健康與否~因為人生無常,珍惜現在擁有的才是真的!
與大家共勉之^^
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