[苦惱] 女友擔心婚後感情變卦....
我是個公務員
在我考上公務員後
就是想要來台南定居
並在這成家、買房
而且我也真的來台南工作了
可是去受訓時卻認識了現任女友
她是台北人、也是個公務員
我們後來也有結婚的打算
而且協定婚後是我調去北部工作
到了越逼近結婚時進度
雙方家長要約見面時
她卻越焦慮婚後的變化
尤其想到要半年內結婚(因為明年她年紀逢九,所以希望能在過年前結婚)
就變得不那麼想結婚
她覺得結婚後是兩個人一起生活
很多事情會變得不一樣
有時候會說她覺得一個人也可以過得很好
我的感覺是她好像真的很想結婚
但是又怕結婚之後會婚變離婚
而且不只一次這樣子了
最近王菲離婚的新聞又引起她的不安了
她真的對我很好 我時時刻刻都在感恩她
常常會不自覺想對她說聲道謝
是真的很想很想對她好一輩子
可是就是卸不下她的不安
我到底該怎麼作才好?
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有好一陣子我以為獅子丸就是麻辣鮮師裡的主任:
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3514/3884000030_f4ae04e603.jpg
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