[閒聊] 婆媳問題還是要聽聽雙方說法
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本身沒有任何交往經驗 婚姻更是不知何時才會到來
抱著多看看前人經驗也不錯的想法 常逛BG版和Marriage版
之前從母親那聽到了她的同學的故事 於是想po上來分享+討論
希望各位大大包容:)
母親一位大學同學在國立大學擔任系主任 是他們同學中最早當婆婆的
之前同學會聚餐時 總是在抱怨媳婦不願進婆家 連進門參觀也不肯
更別提小住 結婚四年來一直是這樣
我母親以及其他同學聽到這也只能感嘆婆媳相處大不易 尤其是他們這年紀
已經當了二三十年媳婦 現在要當婆婆 也是要學習的
餐後這位同學邀我母親到她家泡茶
而我母親則是在進入房子那一刻就了解為何媳婦不願來
房子不但雜亂 還養了許多貓狗 氣味非常重
我母親同學外表乾淨端正 又是大學教授 實在令人想不到家裡會是這樣
就在我母親猶豫是否應指出媳婦不願來的原因時
她的同學先開口 說當年她剛嫁入夫家時 住在很偏遠的鄉下
房子又髒又爛 廁所還是蓋在外面 她都忍下來了 媳婦為什麼不行
也就是說 她知道房子的狀況是如此 但是認為既然當年自己能忍受不舒服的環境
媳婦應該也能忍下來才對
故事就到這邊 我母親一開始只是聽到其中一方的抱怨 如果沒有去她同學家
就會一直認為是這位媳婦不懂規矩 但是事實根本不是這樣
不是媳婦不肯來 而是房子髒的不敢來
從親友那耳聞 乃至閱讀板上的文章 很多時候婆媳問題只有單方面的說法
非當事人想看到事情全貌 一定要聽過兩邊說法
這幾天聽到這事後就想po出來分享
懇請大家賜教:)
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