每年的大年初三都是高中同學會的日子,已經行之有年了
去年中結婚,所以今年大年初二要回娘家吃飯
中午先去老婆舅舅家吃中飯,那是她們家族每年固定的聚會
晚上再去老婆家吃晚餐,因為要舉辦同學會的關係
很早就告知她們沒辦法在過夜,那天晚上岳母就一直說幹嘛那麼早回去
要我們再多留一會兒,因為回我家車程至少兩小時,加上一大早就出門
已經有點累了,最後在我堅持下,晚上9點才肯讓我們離開
之後就感覺岳母對老婆態度冷淡,但是因為岳母常常莫名的生氣
也沒特別去想說為什麼,前幾天才無意間知道,因為初二我們太早回去
也沒打算留下來過夜,她說老婆的弟妹們想多跟我們唱歌聊天都沒機會
對我們那麼早就回去有點意見
當下我真的是有點不爽,大年初三同學會是每年固定的時間
加上我是主辦人之一,必須早點去協助佈置會場,根本不可能過夜
而且老婆娘家在南部,我家則是在中部,但我們工作都在南部
我們住的地方離老婆娘家僅約10分鐘車程,所以還蠻常回去的
平均一個禮拜最少都會回去2~3次吧,我回老家看爸媽才是難得吧
而且當天在她舅舅吃完中餐後,我們就要回老婆家了
那時有問說岳母要不要載老婆弟弟一同回去,她說不要好了
她們要帶他兒子去逛逛,要我們先回去,結果一回到她家
兩個表妹也跑出去安平玩,就留下我跟我婆還有她舅舅在顧店
而她們一直到晚上7點才回來,然後才開始準備吃晚餐
吃完都已經八點半了,又說要泡茶唱歌,要我們留晚一點不然明天再回去
很早就跟他們說明天我有事,沒辦法在台南過夜,而且要早點回去
如果希望我們可以跟她們有多點時間相處,大可以早點回來吧
結果讓我們兩個在她家抓蚊子相殺,不然就是去隔壁公園散步
反正她們還有好幾天時間可以出去走走,而且我也沒要老婆跟我一起回去
只是她自己也不想留在娘家,因為我岳母實在是很盧的一個人
雖然岳母是對我老婆說,但是我知道應該是針對著我來
我想明年我也不會留下來過夜,因為一旦開了先例,以後同學會都不用去了
而且也要想一下比例原則,我們超過9成的時間都在南部
也很常回去老婆娘家,根本不是像一般住在外地,偶爾才能回去一趟
因為這樣而不爽,實在是有點不能接受
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