[心情] 媳婦的委屈還是往肚裡吞吧!
剛懷孕五週,因為年紀也不小了,加上從得知懷孕後身體經常不舒服,
所以凡事都很小心。
公婆家是很傳統的家庭(過年都要自己蒸年糕灌臘腸),
想當然除夕從一早就必須開始忙碌
以往都會回去幫忙,但今年身體真的不太舒服,所以老公說他會跟公婆溝通,
拜拜前再回家就好
但今天一踏進家門,氣氛就很不好
因為婆婆忙了一整天,又被奶奶唸手腳不俐落,所以臉色不好看
這時我很識相的趕快要去廚房幫忙,
但正在煎蘿蔔糕的公公馬上叫我到客廳坐好,不要靠近廚房
但婆婆就不高興了...
她當我的面說孕婦就是要平常心,什麼都不做不見得對身體好
還叫公公出去,請我去接手煎蘿蔔糕的工作
但公公很生氣的叫我出去....夾在中間的我真是左右為難..
很感謝公公的體諒,但又不能不顧慮婆婆的感受
後來我想說就端菜或擺擺碗筷吧
但這時婆婆用很酸的語氣說....不用了,妳什麼都不用做,
然後將我手中準備端上桌的菜搶過去
這一刻我內心真的好委屈...平時和婆婆也不是處不好
雖不是很親密,但一直都很尊敬,該配合的也都相當配合
肚子裡懷的也是她一直給我相當大壓力的孫子呀!
但她今晚給我的感覺是我藉著懷孕想偷懶不幫忙
跟老公訴苦,他覺得我太大驚小怪,婆婆只是忙了一天有點情緒罷了
他告訴我,不要問我誰對誰錯,一個是老婆,一個是媽媽,
但我只是想發發牢騷,也沒有要你去指責婆婆呀!
怎麼連安撫我一下都不願意?
然後就在氣氛很不好的狀況下不講話了...
一想到年初一還要陪婆婆去拜拜一整天,內心實在覺得很...
她在吃年夜飯時還笑笑的說,下個月要我陪她去三跪一拜的朝山活動
(真不知道她是認真的嗎?要一個孕婦又跪又叩頭,實在不是開玩笑的啊!)
離開婆家前,公婆都會包紅包給小孩意思一下
但往年媳婦是沒有的
可是今年我居然有耶(內心還想說懷孕了身分就是不一樣)
但回到家打開紅包,老公是2600元,我是100元
呵呵~當下真的覺得還不如不要給的好啊!
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