[苦惱] 該懷孕還是回去上班呢?
各位親愛的媽媽們~
現在我有一個朋友面臨一個有點天人交戰的問題
但是我沒辦法給他意見 所以請大家幫幫忙
因為她前不久換工作(主管問題)
但是後來新工作不太ok做沒多久就離職了
索性就在家準備懷孕~目前30y
結果她前一個工作的同事一直想叫她回去幫忙(因為新來的人都做不久且主管也同意)
因此她不知道該怎麼抉擇才好?
經濟狀況的部份:
她跟她先生沒有房貸-女方家給一間房子當嫁妝
沒有車貸-沒有買車 岳父有車可借
老公薪水大概四萬
不用給雙方父母孝親費
孩子生出來之後的保母費就跟她的薪水相差無幾(薪水大概兩萬七)
她現在交戰的原因在於她沒有收入(所以該接受上班)?
但是又在乎將來孩子養育的問題
(目前年紀有點大了再不積極懷孕怕將來難受孕且孩子的童年只有一次)
且沒有上班 大家好像都會用異樣的眼光看她(我覺得她有點想太多)
想請有經驗的媽媽們 可以提供一點建議嘛?
謝謝
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