[分享] 婚後的夢
欖仁包:不能先給,答案就在欖仁包內。
前情:不能提要,提了很容易解出這個夢;
畢竟我自己"當時"也沒有了解到這個 "前情提要"。
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結婚後,生完老大,不知道多久以後,好像是老大 2,3歲吧,
我常常重複做著同樣的夢,有時候幾乎上演一模一樣的夢,
夢裡我一直在找人,有時候用走的,有時候用跑的,
有時候覺得就在路的那邊了,跑到那邊發現:沒有,不是,他(她)又不見了!
於是再繼續向前走,或跑。
夢裡找的這個人好像跟我很熟,又好像不熟,
好像跟我很親密,又好像非常陌生,
他(她)好像是男的,又好像是女的,… …
夢裡走/跑過的路,有我以前住的鄉下,也有類似鄉下的陌生的村子,
有住過、或出差待過的地方,也有奇怪陌生的地方但是又感覺好像來過,
夢裡遇到的人,
從小學同學、大學同學、同事、陌生人、到 外國人、討厭的人、喜歡的人…都有,
雖然已經結婚,但是夢裡並沒有我老公(我們感情一直很好)。
有時候不知道為什麼,心裡"知道"那個人就在前方轉角,當然快馬加鞭趕過去,
好不容易到達那兒,又都不是,都不是我要找的那個人!
這個夢就重複的做,大概做了 3,4年之久,
反正也無害,也不會造成我的困擾,也不會讓我睡眠不足,
每次做同樣的夢,我在夢裡就知道是同樣的戲碼,
當時很訝異,為什麼同樣的夢可以重複做那麼多次?我的大腦還樂此不疲?!
就先不揭開謎底吧,
鄉民就當佛洛伊德來解夢吧!
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欖仁包:人,尤其是女人,結婚後,更要多愛自己"一點"。
我在夢裡找我自己!
"我" 就是跟我很熟,又好像不熟,
"我" 就是跟我很親密,又好像很陌生,
"我" 在夢裡找 "我",當然分不清是男是女。
所以找的路從小到大都有,從住過到陌生的地方都有,
找的人從同學到同事到陌生的人都有。
那為什麼人會在夢裡找自己?
因為平常醒著的時候,把家人(小孩/先生/公婆… )擺在最重要的位置,
把自己的需求放在最後面,
完全忽略了自己,
沒有善待自己。
我領悟到這一點之後,就沒再做過這個夢了。
我會把它寫出來,是看到宅爸提到 "發球權" 的回文,
女人結婚後,太多時候,自己把自己擺在最後一位。
※ 編輯: ants1224 來自: 59.115.48.199 (03/29 18:07)
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