[閒聊] 婚姻中的被欺與自欺?
→ Lenore:給別人意見的人的真實身份不重要嗎 陳長文的說話費跟萬年國 03/09 21:17
→ Lenore:考生的說話費價碼會一樣嗎?真的把自己老公跟婆家治得服服 03/09 21:18
→ Lenore:貼貼的人,跟幻想自己把老公跟婆家治得服服貼貼,實際上婆家 03/09 21:19
→ Lenore:樂見老公跟野女人在她的公主床上性交的人,給版友的意見,哪 03/09 21:20
→ Lenore:個比較有價值?婚姻版又不是精神病患者自慰版。
看了上述的推文內容 我有些許感想
我覺得這話要分兩種狀況來說
1.當事人本來就知情 知道實際上婆家"樂見"老公跟野女人在她的公主床上性交
而她仍眷戀婚姻不離婚 持續在"幻想"自己把自己老公跟婆家治得服服貼貼的
傻傻的繼續容忍第三者在她的婚姻裡存在 那麼這樣的人還跑來板上給板友建議什麼的
就真的很不可取 也很可悲
但如果是另一種狀況:
2.當事人不知情被欺瞞的
事後才發現"實際上婆家樂見老公跟野女人在她的公主床上性交"
那這種狀況可惡的是男方家庭還有第三者吧!
當然如果女方知情後還隱忍跟默許 變成第一種人 那就是女方自找活該
但如果不是 女方有選擇離開她的婚姻 那我覺得這還滿值得恭喜跟讚賞的
這樣的人如果跑來板上分享她的心路歷程 我會覺得很有價值
人生不可能有百分百順遂 婚姻也是
能夠分享美好 也願意分享失敗 這沒甚麼好去取笑人家的
第一種人很可悲 第二種人我會祝福她並欣賞她
至於那種看到人家被強暴了 不怪加害者反而還轉身指責 數落被害者自己不檢點的人
這類落井下石的人 我個人認為這其實比第一種人還要可悲
個人小小的淺見~
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