[求助] 將結婚的男友不老實
因為我們有計畫結婚與生孩子雖然還沒有結婚
還是大膽的在這個版發問...請各位先輩多多指教
男友W在告白交往之初有透露曾有訂婚又解除婚約的前塵往事
當時還提過他領養了二個孩子..是跟未婚媽媽領養的..目前還沒生下來
然後
前天晚上..他喝醉了
他說
他已經結婚又離婚又有一個小四、一個中一的兒子
一邊說還一邊哭...說他對不起我..不應該在這件事情隱瞞我
他說有找機會想告訴我這件事...可是他說不出口
我問他是誰提離婚的
他說是前妻自己說要離的
我又問他那未婚媽媽領養的孩子其實是你親生的??
訂婚的女生也還住在隔壁??
答案都是點頭
聽到這裡
我整個人已經傻掉了
我不知道我該不該介意這件事
二個兒子是前妻在照顧...一家子都還住在隔壁
我接受他有那些過去不可挽回的傷口
但這真的太超出我所能處理與理解的範圍了
二天了
我到現在還呆呆的
W先生是事業有成很有企圖心的大男人
他有很多地方值得我學習...所以才會接受他的追求與他交往
但是那麼複雜的背景
還能繼續以結婚為前提交往嗎??
各位大大怎麼想呢?給我一些想法吧~
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