[討論] 如果病的人是你...
大家在討論婆家/娘家人生病「該」誰照顧,看到這個「該」字,就知道多數人都視之
為苦差事,所以才要討論誰「有責任」。
二十四孝雖然有許多愚孝愚行,但是其中有一則的想法是我比較能認同的,就是宋朝
黃庭堅親事其母,即使家中有傭人也要親身躬行,我想這就是為他體貼母親的心情,有這
樣的孩子,當母親的一定覺得很窩心很安慰。
奶奶住院其間,隔壁有兩個病人,其中一個老太太,照顧她的是兒子,這個兒子好像
是公務員,因為母親生病請了長假在照料,每天都看到那個老太太笑咪咪的,讓人覺得這
對母子真幸福。另一個病床是請看護,那位病人是糖尿病,腳已經爛掉了,常常只要病房
一有人開門或是訪客,就看他眼巴巴望著門口,像是期望誰看看他。可是一直都沒有親人
來。所以也沒看過他的笑容。
如果住院的人是你,你會希望自己是上面的哪一種?
如果我現在在醫院,我希望陪我的是我先生。事實上我正在待產,當然希望是他XD。
結婚以前,住院是我媽去照顧我。如果將來孩子大了,我又有這樣的情況,一定很希望是
兒子來看我,媳婦如果對我好,那是我要表示感激,而不是應該的。
其實我奶奶在安養院時會去看的就是我媽和我姑媽,有一次我媽把她接回家住,她高
興得掉眼淚。只是那時候不敢讓她知道我爸已經往生了。
叔叔伯伯則是抱怨我奶奶一年花掉他幾萬,然後款項還都是我哥先墊付的。過世的時
候還推說他的店要做生意不能辦喪事,辦喪事的時候伯母還吵著要分財產。
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未必要辭職,上班又不是24小時,假日或下班都還有時間。姑媽老遠從基隆回來時還會要
我和我爸回去休息,她要看到假日結束。叔叔伯伯堂兄弟姐妹這些是來個半小時就走人了
,奶奶雖然癡呆心倒是明白得很,都說他們是來沾醬油的。
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