和女友交往了快兩年,在這幾個月我覺得她對我越來越冷淡某天和她談起這件事,她說她在感情中很累原因一:家人常常幫她介紹對象,而家人是不可能接受女同志的所以不可能出櫃,她看不到我們的未來選擇"正常"的生活對她來講會輕鬆很多原因二:因為我比較黏人一點,所以偶爾就想見面或約會不過其實近幾個月也才一個月見一次,也沒講電話只傳line我知道她不想常見面,所以幾乎不主動約,就算想見面也會忍著過久一點她說熱戀期過了,就覺得沒必要這麼多相處然後我又會反應她太冷淡,她覺得很累也不希望我壓抑自己,太辛苦所以她和我提了分手我在挽回之前問了她是否有適合對象她說有,只是還沒有開始交往我聽到了之後就開不了口了就這樣分手至今一個禮拜當自己處在這種狀態時,真的會失去判斷能力分開後我在想該不該挽回,我還愛她,也許她還愛我還是該讓她去選擇另一種可能性?思緒好亂,每天都很煎熬我忍不住的繼續和她傳訊息,關心她當下似乎還有在一起的感覺,心裡比較舒服但一到半夜就又清醒了,眼淚忍不住一直掉如果有類似經驗的版友,是否能和我聊聊天也許我會比較有想法,謝謝--※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 114.34.25.97※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/lesbian/M.1468600661.A.FAD.html
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