Fw: [求助] 我堅持不跟男方家人住..他要退婚
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作者: BoyGirl1 (男女板專用帳號1) 看板: Boy-Girl
標題: [求助] 我堅持不跟男方家人住..他要退婚
時間: Tue Sep 10 21:41:36 2013
我男朋友是單親家庭 他爸爸去世的早 只有他一個兒子
原本交往時的共識是希望我們兩個能自己在外組個家庭
然後離他家近一點 方便可以常看他媽媽
但幾個月前他媽媽因為車禍所以行動有點不便
復健後便能行動要靠助行器慢慢走
他說結婚不搬出去了 想要一起住家裡照顧他媽媽
我當時覺得整個未來計畫都變了 一時生氣就這樣對他說
我:我覺得男女平等,為什麼結婚女生就一定要住男方家然後照顧對方家人
那我家人誰照顧?
男友:結婚後 我媽就是你媽 媽媽現在生活不方便不應該好好照顧?
我:那我媽年紀大了 你怎不搬到我家照顧我媽?
男友:你家有三個小孩耶!妳兩個弟弟難道不會照顧你媽?但我媽只有我一個兒子
我不照顧誰照顧,我媽平常也對妳不錯不是嗎?
我:可是我不想跟公婆住呀!這不是之前就說好了
男友:但現在我媽身體出了很大問題,計畫要改變
我:我不想,你可以請看護,你只是想找我當免費看護是不是?
男友:算了算了 我不想談了
就這樣過幾天 男友打電話跟我說不打算結婚了 我們觀念落差太大
我聽了整個覺得很難過 跟我好姐妹說 好姐妹叫我趕快跟這媽寶分手 不要耽誤青春
可是都交往這麼久 怎麼說放就放
請問要怎麼讓我男友改變心意
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