我嘗試去理解為什麼異男會反同與仇女,先說結論:
異男其實是被壓抑的,不只是性壓抑,還有社會壓抑,
-性壓抑來自於性慾無法得到滿足
-社會壓抑來自於成家責任與社交困境
從前異男可以透過霸權來釋放這些壓力,但現在卻無法..
1. 性別越平等,同志和女生就越幸福.
性別越不平等,異男就越幸福.
台灣社會是朝向「同志和女生越幸福」的目標邁進.
2. 異男的壓抑與不幸,主要在三個方面:
-慾求不滿: 身為男性,我們都知道男性的生理需求有多強,
但異男獲得性滿足感的管道/機會/解放程度,
其實遠不如男同.
這可以解釋為什麼異男會覺得男同很淫亂多性病,
因為異男總是慾求不滿,而男同卻經常得到滿足.
異男想和許多女生經常且瘋狂做愛,但現實就是無法.
他們還會怨恨那些不願配合的女生. (仇女)
-家庭負擔: 異男有成家的壓力,到了一定年紀沒達成,會有魯蛇感,
魯感一部分來自外界,一部分來自內心.
男同的壓力是出櫃而非成家,一旦出櫃,這股壓力就釋放了.
(目前社會環境對出櫃越來越有利,對同志來說是好事.)
此外,男同也不會因為沒結婚沒成家而自覺魯.
-社交困境: 為滿足上述二項(性慾和成家),異男有強烈社交需求,
但由於性平教育不足,導致性權觀念差,
因此許多異男與女性交際時頻頻受挫,
尤其現在女權意識越來越高,女生更不願屈就.
但異男除了認為台女很高拐難搞,很少去真正檢討自己.
3. 我覺得同志處境越來越好,而且未來還會更好.
給異男的建議:(1)就性慾方面,可以試著接受同性..
(2)就女性關係方面,可以增強性平觀念.
假如一再反同與仇女,那真的只會讓自己更加不幸..
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