[諮詢] 大家都怎麼讓家人接受?
朋友的爸爸很排斥同性戀,經過幾次衝突,
朋友決定離開,而爸爸也禁止家人和他聯絡.
連續兩次過年被鎖在外面後,已經好幾年都沒有回去,
但最近他得知奶奶失智症惡化,已經快認不得人,
和我哭訴他好想回去,我聽了也好難過.
我和他二哥正在交往,前幾天想和他討論,
但男友卻冷冷地說"那是他的選擇,是男人就自己承擔"
並叫我不要淌這渾水,免得搞到最後連我也被討厭.
和伯母討論,伯母聽完雖然哭了,
但也不敢幫忙,也叫我千萬別和伯父提.
這幾天情緒也好低落,既生氣又難過,
氣男友的冷漠也為伯母的無奈感到傷心.
但最令我不解的是伯父到底為什麼這麼排斥?
印象中的伯父明明是很幽默又年輕的,對新的事物接受度很高,
也對自己和朋友的無力能為沮喪,時間也完全不站在我們這邊.
請問大家都是如何渡過這個難關的呢?
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