[心情] 男友選到消防役 我該如何調適心情
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我家那隻最近進去還債,替代役的他竟然選到"消防役"... 完全超出我幫他算的單位(我承認我在亞洲父母XD)
我原本是算好文化役剛好有缺,再來就環保或社會役,第三是教育役。消防警察役還有社會役我不准他選。但這次文化沒開半個,其他都以學歷先選完了(他大學畢業),最後只好選消防。
我很擔心他去消防役會發生什麼意外,給剛拿到駕照的他開救護消防車?還是在災區收水管還是打雜危險性還是有。
雖然昨天他回去成功嶺前有給我一些心理建設,但晚上睡前我又開始胡思亂想~
如果出了什麼意外,我要怎麼辦...他家人也不知道我的存在 呵。
最近晚上真的都想一想就哭了,想問版上有人當過消防役還是另一半也是消防役的,心情該如何調適 去面對這件事
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我查過了!雖然很少 但像高雄氣爆那次呢?雖然他沒進去救災。但他還是被炸到了...再說就算是一般救護,那些心理影響也還是存在的。
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※ 編輯: zyio0602 (111.248.210.17), 09/12/2016 20:19:39
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有!功課我做的比他還多!但消防役文其實沒很多,有人說新北雖然不用出勤,但很幹的也有...
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我完全承認。我是怪獸家長!但不得不說這種焦慮是不可避免的呀
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※ 編輯: zyio0602 (111.248.210.17), 09/12/2016 20:43:59
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是呀!雖然兩邊都很酸啦XD 但ptt確實有出社會!講的話實在!被砲一下我才會安心
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※ 編輯: zyio0602 (111.248.210.17), 09/12/2016 20:49:32
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好像蠻多人都覺得我擔心太多了呃!但以我的角色來看,我擔心也不是不會發生啊!而且他這麼笨,反應也慢。也不是很會閱讀空氣...
也是看到很多"替代役"過的超級低調~我比較心就出來了呀!我也希望他一年就爽爽過就好。誰要去抓蜂窩捕蛇的呀...
希望不要再有替代役就是爽的觀念了...
兵變喔...這是個人行為問題了。這我不太擔心
※ 編輯: zyio0602 (111.248.210.17), 09/12/2016 21:47:24
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