[請益] 為何發生肉體關係後互動會變冷淡呢?
這幾年在圈內跟不少人互動
我一直都有一個疑惑
為何發生關係後~彼此關係就會變淡
以我自己的樣本數來說
高達7成互動會變淡...有2成是直接不聯絡
1成是維持原來的關係 甚至變更好
先撇除有關性功能的原因(假設都很美好)
但依然會發生這樣狀況
因為這是別人的選擇 我只能尊重
但....我確信未來也是會再發生...
我真的不懂為何發生關係後就要把彼此當作陌生人
我自己是絕對不會這樣做...很不合理呀....
所以我現在不敢隨便放感情 就是怕這樣
這種問題只有對圈內人才會發生....
我目前也想不到解決方式
我認真的想請益各位,為什麼會這樣呢?
有沒有解套的方式呢?
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