[心情] 糾結-與男友家人的飯局
筆者(26 y/o)平時就不太喜歡交際應酬的飯局
隨著和男友(28 y/o)交往多年下來
他早已跟爸媽坦白同志身分
他爸媽知道我的存在與身分
樂於兒子將來當醫師娘(喂~~)
也默默接受了我們的關係
他希望我和他家人有些互動
總是會連拐帶騙把我帶去他家
但是基於王不見王(!?)且醜媳婦怕見公婆的情況下
摸黑躡手躡腳地潛入他家 隔天則是藉口說要去哪裡玩所以早早出門
因而打照面互動的機會不是很多
然而很可惡的 男友還是會挖洞給我跳
想方設法地要安排我跟伯父伯母吃飯
某幾次晚上八九點去找他 騙我說他們家吃過了或是沒人在家
見面的時候
才說他媽邀我共進晚餐諸此云云的
我就這樣莫名其妙被押著上車赴鴻門宴去了 (OS:#$@%$#^$^#%)
席間如果只是寒暄吃飯就算了
他爸會以長輩過來人的語氣(他爸也是醫師) 批判性地語氣下指導棋
你以後要做OOO好 不要做XXX好
或是十分關切現在在醫院的生活blabla~~
表面上只能唯唯諾諾的陪笑 畢竟不能沒禮貌
然而私底下會向閃光表示和他家人吃飯很有壓力
然而最近他媽似乎下最後通牒
說來台北這麼久沒好好招待我
邀請我與他們家在寒舍艾美共進晚餐
雖然閃光拿我喜歡吃的buffet釣我上鉤
只是想到壓力很大的關切就很胃痛......
版上有人有經驗可以分享嗎
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